A few personal thoughts on my struggle with work stress, learning to say "no," and trying to find a simpler path.
Finally, after weeks, I've got my laptop (yes, the personal one) open, ready to dive into those long-delayed emails (Ozan Varol and Mark Manson, thank you for waiting!) and pour out the feelings that have been with me for a while. Looking out the window, an ache in my neck and a stiff back tell the story of my stress better than words ever could.
I'm in one of those familiar cycles again: working relentlessly (till midnights - YouTube videos is my best friend in the background), taking on every responsibility, struggling to say "no" (or perhaps, unable to say it at all), and finding myself shouldering all the burdens. Performance review season, critical projects, crucial audits – my life's priorities constantly revolve around work.
It's almost comical; last weekend, I even got a parking ticket because I prioritized the company's expenses, parking on the street instead of a paid lot to avoid creating extra cost with the benefit car. The irony? I ended up paying the fine myself.
The Holiday Hustle: A Battle Within
Today (Happy Republic Day!) is a public holiday, and I'm at home, locked in a fierce internal battle over whether to check my work emails. Yesterday was a half-day, and I managed to shut down my computer around 3 PM. My family and I headed to Kadıköy for Okan's tech shopping, followed by a delightful coffee break and dinner. On the way home, extending our drive through Moda, Caddebostan, and Bağdat Caddesi, one part of me urged, "Relax, disconnect from work." Yet, the other whispered, "What if something important happened? Just a quick glance."
Of course, the second voice won. Just as I settled into the couch, ready to watch YouTube, a critical meeting invitation from the auditors, with a demanding agenda, popped up in my inbox. For the entire hour-long video, my eyes were on the screen, but my mind was racing through everything I needed to prepare for that audit meeting. What happened next? The video ended, and I went straight to my room, working until past midnight. It's almost noon now, and I've been resisting checking my emails for about 12 hours. I occasionally check MS Teams messages, but surely, that doesn't break my "digital detox," right?
From Performance Objectives to Life's Lessons
This morning, while catching up on personal emails, my thoughts naturally drifted to performance objectives, especially with our annual performance review period upon us. I recently finalized and shared my yearly evaluations with my manager, hoping all this effort translates into tangible growth and development. This train of thought also sparked an idea: perhaps I should write a blog post on annual performance reviews for LinkedIn. I'm weighing whether I'll find the energy and if it might attract any negative feedback.
I've also realized lately that I'm using this blog almost like a therapy session (especially when I write in Turkish). Recently, in a meeting with the Dubai team (which I joined, again, because I couldn't say "no" to supporting them), a senior executive honored me by praising my blog at the start of the meeting. It became a great ice-breaker, and when people asked what I wrote about, I said "personal development and finance."
However, I'm well aware that I haven't written much about finance lately. That meeting reminded me of a financial lesson I'd wanted to share. While I used to write lengthy posts with screenshots, now a few sentences will do:
Last Monday, I was making a foreign currency investment. Unlike usual, I decided to compare exchange rates across banks. Akbank was my go-to, but Enpara offered a much more advantageous rate. I checked Enpara's website for fees, noting that recipient bank fees could vary, then looked at Enpara's own transaction fees. There was still a significant advantage. I completed the FX purchase and sent it to Akbank. Poof! A fee was deducted that made my "clever" maneuver pointless. A lesson learned, with a price tag attached.
Simplicity: The Ultimate Investment Strategy for Life
This experience wasn't just a financial lesson; it was a profound reminder: life should be simple, straightforward. To tie it back to finance, there's no need to overcomplicate investments, jumping from one asset to another trying to optimize every single penny. We've seen how well gold, often underestimated by many, has performed recently. Simply accumulating gold can outperform many other investment vehicles.
Consistency, solid assets, and a clear objective. That's the entire philosophy, and keeping it simple is the key. No need to make it complicated.
Now, if you'll excuse me, I'll go pursue my goal of reading a bit more... and perhaps finally achieving some genuine mental performance and growth outside of work.
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