Yeni Yaş Aldım: 41 Kere Maşallah!

Geldik mi 41 yaşına Volkan Bey? Nasıl da bir yıl daha attı ama… Geçen sene 40’lar kulübüne girerken pek bir heyecanlıydık. Doğum gününe özel instagram videoları paylaşıp farklı bir kahvaltı menüsü (çılgın su böreği) uzaktan çalışma (cidden hem evden hem işten uzakta) falan yapıp şımartmıştın kendini… Bu kez çok daha mütevazi, çok daha sade olmasının var mı bir sebebi?

Bir yaş daha alırken bu kez heyecanı değil sakinliği, dinginliği daha bir hissediyorum. Belki de olması gereken budur. Ekşi’de biri kırklı yaşlar için “bu yıllarda yenilen goller kolay çıkmaz” diye yazmış. İşte belki garanticiliğimden artık sakin kalabilmeyi tercih ediyorum.

Aman yanlış anlaşılmasın, hayal kurmaya, istemeye devam… “Bir gün…” diye başlayan cümleler yerine “işte o gün” diye başlayan cümleler kuracağım günler yakın olsun. Şükürler olsun!

Z-Report of Belgrade Finance Workshop

After the 4-day Belgrade Finance Workshop, following a restful Saturday and Sunday, let's take a look at the Z-Report of my Belgrade visit...

My First Belgrade View

I see it as an opportunity to enrich ourselves with the lessons and gains we draw from experiences. I actually gained the most important experience of this workshop right at the beginning. I woke up at 4:30 for my 8:25 flight to Belgrade, filled up my car with gas, set the cruise control to 90 km after I fueled up, found a parking spot at Sabiha Gökçen Airport, and paid for 4 days. After passing through security, when it was my turn for passport control, the officer asked, "What are you doing here?" and informed me that my flight was from Istanbul Airport. The sweat that poured out of my body at that moment taught me a valuable lesson. I did something I had never done before and quickly crossed from Asia to Europe in the left lane, "a little fast." Luckily, I had left for the airport three hours before the flight, so even though I was at the wrong airport, following the rules had paid off.

After the wrong airline experience, relaxation in the lobby

Upon landing in Belgrade, I went to the place where taxis were waiting to go to the Hyatt Hotel where I would stay. The first five taxis didn't allow me to pay with a credit card, but the sixth taxi accepted, so I chose it.

Before setting out, I had given myself advice to turn these two days of a four-day workshop, which would be spent on the road for two days and in meetings for two days, into an opportunity for mental relaxation. Even though I set Teams offline and configured Outlook to turn off notifications, when I arrived at the hotel before nine in the morning and the room was not yet cleaned, I found myself sitting at a table thinking, "Let me clean up some emails so they don't stay on my mind." By the way, it was a little challenging to get used to the time difference, especially since my flight from Istanbul landed in Belgrade at 8:10, 15 minutes earlier than expected. After receiving my room around 11, I went to a nearby mall, walked around, had lunch, and then walked to the city center using Google Maps. Although I had no problem walking on the way, rain became an issue when I arrived. When I couldn't find a place in three cafes, I finally found a wooden chair in the fourth cafe and enjoyed a book and coffee. I thought about returning to the hotel before the rain got worse and before it got too late, but my umbrella couldn't protect me from the splashing cars on the roadside. Especially when crossing the bridge, the buses not slowing down caused my pants and boots to get wet every time. I went back to the room, warmed my feet with the hairdryer, and recovered. Then, another round of email cleaning, followed by an evening dinner with friends at the hotel, and the first day ended.

When You're Tired, the Best Dinner Option is the Hotel

The second day had a schedule focused on business matters. The highlight of the day was seeing our former football player Dusko Tosic at the restaurant we went to for lunch. I immortalized my trip to Belgrade by taking a photo with him. For dinner, we went to an Italian restaurant. The food was excellent, and the atmosphere was very warm. Of course, because I sat inside without taking off my jacket, when we went outside, I started shaking so much in the cold night air that my legs seemed to lose control. Fortunately, I quickly returned to normal with some movements before anyone saw.

Dusko Tosic & me

The agenda for the third day was lighter. After a meeting at the office, we had lunch and then went bowling as a team. In an area where I wasn't competitive, I chose to enjoy myself. I think such activities are very useful for breaking down the walls at the workplace the next day and for teams to communicate more effectively, of course, without going overboard.

Bowling with the Team

The last day coincided with Black Friday. After packing up my room and checking out at 10:00, I went to the nearby mall again. Unlike the first day, there was a tremendous crowd in the early hours this time. Especially the crowd at Zara was comparable to the Zara in Istanbul. Anyway, after buying a outfit for my son Okan and chocolates for home, I completed my shopping duty, first going to the hotel and then to the airport. Speaking of the airport, where are the airports in Istanbul and where is the airport in Belgrade? I observed once again that I was quite knowledgeable about this. Unlike the arrival, this time the flight I boarded at 14:45 landed in Istanbul at 18:30. I arrived home in 1 hour and 15 minutes in Friday traffic and, after the exciting gift presentation and recounting my experiences, returned to our normal life.

Circle of Trust

Wrapping Up Movember: A Journey of 60km for Men's Health

As Movember comes to a close, I find myself reflecting on the impactful journey of moving 60km throughout the month. The motivation behind each step was profound symbolizing the 60 men we lose every hour, every day. Movember, a leading charity, is reshaping the landscape of men's health, addressing issues like prostate cancer, testicular cancer, mental health, and suicide prevention.

Throughout November, I had the privilege of joining forces with Movember, contributing to the collective effort to make a difference in the lives of men. The mission is clear: to stop men from dying too young. The 60km challenge became more than just a physical feat; it became a tribute to the lives we aim to save. Each stride represented a step towards raising awareness and funds for vital research and support programs. The statistics are staggering, but Movember's commitment to change is unwavering.

In the realm of prostate cancer, Movember is pioneering advancements in research and treatments, aiming to improve outcomes for those affected. The focus on testicular cancer ensures that early detection and intervention become accessible to all. Mental health and suicide prevention initiatives strive to break down stigmas and provide the necessary resources for those in need.

As we finalize this Movember, I am thankful to everyone who supported this journey. Whether through donations, encouraging words, or simply sharing the mission, your involvement has made a tangible impact. Together, we are part of a movement that goes beyond a month on the calendar; it's a commitment to long-lasting change.

While we transition from Movember into the future, let's carry the spirit of awareness, support, and advocacy forward. Men's health matters, and by standing together, we can continue making strides toward a world where men live healthier, happier, and longer lives.

You may also like to read: Volkan Yorulmaz: Supporting Men's Health: My Movember Journey